Feeling a bit dim

So, I'm walking home today and thinking about Christmas traditions and how we as a family have so few of them and it suddenly dawned on me that I had actually destroyed my family when I left my ex. I feel like an idiot. I hadn't actually realized that before. Well, I had, but not…

The GOH and the HH

So, the gang of hoodlums are coming by again this weekend, but I will be away, far away, all because of the Horrible Heffalump. Those of you who have gone through the "new relationship" thing with a divorced/divorcing fellah know about the Horrible Heffalump - that would be the scary ex-wife, who rightly or wrongly,…